Sharing my trauma, trying to heal, and help others.

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  • The bystander.

    In normal families, you see a parent that is overwhelmed…tired…nothing left but frustration. You step in and help, you offer to take the kids overnight, you ask if there is anything they need. You help! Well in my family we do a little fun game called…the opposite game. As a…

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  • The siblings.

    The siblings.

    Our family dynamic was a strange one, from my mother I have two other siblings, both younger. One brother. One sister. But from my father…

  • The beginning.

    The beginning.

    As a child your job is to be a child, not worry about the background noise, the hard things in life, or feeling the difference…

About Me

I’m Victoria, the creator and author behind this blog. I have two beautiful children who my husband and I adopted. I am just here to tell my story, these are the hardest parts of my life and I am ready to share and hope that if I can help even one person in the process will make this worth it! I have been holding out for years and I am now ready to share my truth!

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